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This one is weird, so i knew this one woman. By her words, she really liked me. But because the first date didn't go well, she needed to re evaluate her entire life. Now I don't mind that part, but it just seems psychotic to me? So because I only check off 98/100 of her boxes, she would rather be alone than to compromise? I remember when I was with my wife (2010 or so when we first started dating), dating was NOT this messed up, and women could understand at this point that there was always a level of compromise required to make a relationship work.

This one is weird, so i knew this one woman. By her words, she really liked me. But because the first date didn't go well, she needed to re evaluate her entire life. Now I don't mind that part, but it just seems psychotic to me? So because I only check off 98/100 of her boxes, she would rather be alone than to compromise? I remember when I was with my wife (2010 or so when we first started dating), dating was NOT this messed up, and women could understand at this point that there was always a level of compromise required to make a relationship work.

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[–] [deleted] • 3 pts

You are analyzing too much. Women just say whatever shit to avoid having to make hard decisions. This one being telling you that she doesn't like you.

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It's funny she said she couldn't date right now and had to focus on herself. Im guessing that's codeword for ride a bunch of dicks and fuck around before "settling down"

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

Exactly.

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It's amazing how when you analyze it, you see it for what it is. Even if she did like me, she hates the idea of having to settle down, and being dependent on somoene else. What's more funny to me is that settling down with someone is the financially smart decision, but instead women will happily shackle themselves to some shit job to prove to no one they are somehow not wastes of space

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Estrogen and hormone based BC are the precursor to female insanity. Add the internet and socials, cake is baked.

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I seriously think you could have ended that question at the word psychotic. Now as useless as that comment is beyond just expressing my opinion, I have to say that I have seen the same thing as you: Women are way more messed up these days than I remember them being in the past. I think part of this has to do with the fact that our society, and Western culture in general, has elevated them to a status in society that they simply are not equipped for. Not to preach, but to give an example, the Bible is very clear that they are the weaker vessel, that they are not equal to men in terms of leadership, logic, heading up a household, fighting in wars, and providing for and protecting one's family. I think men and women are designed very differently, and equipped for very different roles, and the fact that our culture has told them that they are exactly the same as men has harmed them in drastic and myriad ways. It has also weakened our men, but that's a separate topic.

Add to that the fact that now these leftist nutjobs are basically saying a man is a woman is a tranny is a non-binary-trans-whatever-you-want-to-call-yourself will only exacerbate this problem. As much as our culture might tell them that they can be everything a man can be, it doesn't magically equip them for that role no matter how much they might scream that it does. This is not a dig on women, but it is a critique of feminism, and the radical notions that both sexes (yes, there are only two) are completely interchangeable. Until reality, or our own sense rescues our culture from this insanity, it's only going to get worse. No matter how you slice it, a man can at best be a shitty impersonation of a woman, and a woman can at best be a shitty impersonation of a man. In both roles, our respective inadequacies will damage the society around us, as well as ourselves.

This has been intentionally done to us by those who actually run things. Do you think that the Rothschilds, the Rockefellers, (or name any elite banker family you want), put their women in roles designed for men?

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

Any single person over 18 has mental problems. As simple as it gets.

Any adult divorced person has mental problems. As simple as it gets.

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This woman was in her late late 20s, so her cock riding time is fast approaching the end. Hence I think what I witnessed is a full blown panic meltdown as her brain has to choose between what nature intended and what the kike media tells her. I noticed she didn't say she didn't want to date me, just not date me right now. Knowing my fucking luck, I'm gonna find someone new, and this one will come back in the picture at the same time

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I've seen plenty of married couples that have ( what I would call) mental problems, and a dysfunctional relationship with their spouse.

I think your generalizations are... generalizations.

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Women want a man who only exists in her mind.

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Sounds like a shit test. Everything is a shit test with them at this stage.

The worst thing you can do is look hurt or needy. The best is act like you are dissapointed but meh, let it be known you have other options.

Women want what they can't have and you can only chase what's moving away.

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Gonna be honest, that was my first guess as well. She was super adamant to hang out again, even after the failed first date, and then mental breakdown happened a few weeks after. I never really understood the wall bullshit when I was younger, but now, it seems like all the women in the late 20s/early 30s are going absolutely maniacally batshit crazy. It's just so weird, its like a mass psychosis, where their nature system is so powerful, it melts them down when challenged against the jew propaganda

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Read an article about a woman who asks the barman to send drinks to table when she's on a date, and pretend they are from other men. Also sends herself flowers.

First thought was batshit, but maybe she is on to something. Maybe faking social media isn't a bad idea.

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As messed up as it sounds, I can kind of see the appeal of white dudes dating Asian women, kind of. It's not good in the long run for the white race, but it does help the Asian one. On the other hand, I'm sure even Asian women have their fair shares of problems as well.

In this case, I think my problem is the idea the woman has to supersede the man in ability, it's something I've noticed a lot more these days with women, is that they see a relationship as some kind of war between them and you. And of course, it isn't, but they still treat it as such. I don't really want to date someone who sees me as some kind of battle trophy.

Ironically, what I find really weird, is this woman would have a higher chance of achieving her goals by settling down and using the man's money and resources, but instead they see it as a handout or ceding defeat. It's just super fucking weird

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, why are you wasting your time dating psychotic women?

You seem like one of those drama trolls who post shit like this to get reactions. Not buying the "I'm dying" bit now.

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Females should go go from the protector-ship of their father directly to (parent approved) headship of a husband. Years ago an interim period was unheard of. Everything's screwed up. So, nothing surprises.

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Uh...you think it stops at dating?