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This one is weird, so i knew this one woman. By her words, she really liked me. But because the first date didn't go well, she needed to re evaluate her entire life. Now I don't mind that part, but it just seems psychotic to me? So because I only check off 98/100 of her boxes, she would rather be alone than to compromise? I remember when I was with my wife (2010 or so when we first started dating), dating was NOT this messed up, and women could understand at this point that there was always a level of compromise required to make a relationship work.

This one is weird, so i knew this one woman. By her words, she really liked me. But because the first date didn't go well, she needed to re evaluate her entire life. Now I don't mind that part, but it just seems psychotic to me? So because I only check off 98/100 of her boxes, she would rather be alone than to compromise? I remember when I was with my wife (2010 or so when we first started dating), dating was NOT this messed up, and women could understand at this point that there was always a level of compromise required to make a relationship work.

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[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

Exactly.

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It's amazing how when you analyze it, you see it for what it is. Even if she did like me, she hates the idea of having to settle down, and being dependent on somoene else. What's more funny to me is that settling down with someone is the financially smart decision, but instead women will happily shackle themselves to some shit job to prove to no one they are somehow not wastes of space

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

There are a select few women out there that will follow you into hell if thats what you desire. Your objective is finding one of those.

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I would love to know where one finds this woman, because my selection right now is very poor