My tactic of passively ignoring said woman is now doing the opposite of making her more attracted to me

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It's honestly hilarious, and something I never noticed until now. Men really have all the power in relationships, but clown world has perverted us to think we have none. See, I always assumed guy makes first move, yaddi yadda, bullshit bullshit, bla bla bla. So I've been experimenting by becoming more chaste so to speak, and instead focussing on the women as a character and NOT a sexual object. This absolutely drives women mad from what I can tell, because they are so used to being an object of sexuality, they can't comprehend why someone would do the opposite. So now the woman is literally texting me about how i need to kiss her next time i see her, and pretty much begging me to be more intimate. Could be an epic failure, but it's honestly hilarious. was right!

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Women want what's unattainable. You have to be either moderately attractive or wealthy for that to work.

Feminism has destroyed our society. When women are encouraged to be "equal" to men and do whatever they want sexually, most will end up with too many partners. This erodes their ability to pair bond, much more than it does for men.

This is why we have such a high divorce rate, so many broken families, and so many mentally ill, fatherless kids.

TLDR: shaming promiscuous women is a GOOD thing. We need to bring back traditional values to have a functioning society.

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Feminism and social media has destroyed society

When women can get all the compliments she wants she holds it against her husband who only gives them when appropriate so their minds start wondering about the guy five states away and she justifies it as abuse because he isn't complimenting her constantly. She sees all the attention as giving her a higher value than she has so she leaves and the cycle starts all over again.

All the while her value drops because she is growing older and her number of partners are higher. Women are terrible at self reflection so she doesn't know why things are going badly, only that they are. In the end she ends up empty and a soulless, unfeeling void that wonders why her life didn't turn out like the Hallmark movie because she did all the right things and she's so beautiful and loved by so many men- why is she so unhappy?

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Yes, a lot of women are shallow. In contrast, a lot of men drink and eat too much, don't exercise, don't work hard enough, and let themselves become fat, undisciplined slobs. Not all people suck though. Aim higher.

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Comparing a very clear, reasoned flaw of women with a completely unrelated flaw of men and finishing with the brilliant NoT aLl WomEn ArE lIkE tHaT!!!!

Maybe you see yourself in this, either as the women or the man fucked over? Why are you taking it so personally.

Why not mention how a lot of men don't wash themselves or cheat on their wives? It's about as relevant as the fact that they don't work hard enough and don't exercise. It's about as relevant to this discussion as what you wrote? Some women do those things too. Why not point out how so many men don't own a car that's worth more than 60 thousand? Again, it's as relevant to the conversation as what you wrote.

TLDR; you felt like you had to somehow get involved so you choose a completely unrelated criticism just so you could feel superior? Are you that bored? No self esteem maybe?

I bet I know the answer to my question. I know why you took it so personally.

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If you chase them they will run. If you run, they will chase you.

Of course, this only works if you are not Brad/Pajeet.

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Women thrive on attention, which explains why so many have instagram accounts full of selfies. Their perceived value is based on how many likes or DMs from men they get. With holding your attention gives it more value.

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In all honesty, this is great if you’re just trying to get laid and all..but I’d be much more circumspect in choosing a ltr/lifelong mate.

All we have to go off of is the details you give us, which are likely not a complete picture of this woman (IE she may be a lot better or a lot worse than what we can ascertain from your posts) or the relationship. For example, we have no idea how long you’ve been seeing her?

If you’ve been dating for several months and withholding physicality, yeah I’m not surprised that she’s a little ancy at this point. That in of itself would hardly make her “abnormal” or “whorish.” I’m not even talking about sex in particular, either. If all she’s wanting is kissing and cuddling, that would be totally normal.

All of this shit has to be taken within context.

But in any case, yes “it works.”

I’d say that in fact it works so well that I don’t believe I’ve ever had to make the first physical move on a female in my entire life. Nor have I ever been the first one to say “I love you.”

That in of itself isn’t necessarily a good thing, to be clear. I think it depends on a host of other factors.

My current girlfriend, I’ve been with her almost a year and a half now.

She made it abundantly clear that she was not looking to have sex and wanted to see if we were compatible in other areas. Which was music to my ears because I had just come out of a divorce where the relationship was built on all sorts of weak foundations from the very beginning. Actually, we’re both once divorced and value very similar things at this point in our lives. I just played it cool and made zero moves, which is what she wanted. She eventually signaled when I could go in for the first kiss (which to me, is a move in itself - hence why I say I’ve never made the first move).

If you’re just patient, the woman will always lose her own patience at some point.

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Btw, OP. While this social experimentation is interesting and all, I beg of you to pay attention to what I told you in that other post:

Study up on and become intimately familiar with cluster B disorders and their traits. And then avoid any woman who displays them. You'll save yourself a lot of time and heartache if you do. Same with bi-polar.

One last thing. Trust your gut. You don't necessarily need to be able to know why your gut is saying a particular thing. Just because you can't logically explain it doesn't mean it's not telling you the truth. It sounds like your gut is telling you something already, it's the reason you wrote this post. Had I listened to my gut, I never would have dated - much less married - that fire breathing banshee from hell.