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It's honestly hilarious, and something I never noticed until now. Men really have all the power in relationships, but clown world has perverted us to think we have none. See, I always assumed guy makes first move, yaddi yadda, bullshit bullshit, bla bla bla. So I've been experimenting by becoming more chaste so to speak, and instead focussing on the women as a character and NOT a sexual object. This absolutely drives women mad from what I can tell, because they are so used to being an object of sexuality, they can't comprehend why someone would do the opposite. So now the woman is literally texting me about how i need to kiss her next time i see her, and pretty much begging me to be more intimate. Could be an epic failure, but it's honestly hilarious. was right!

It's honestly hilarious, and something I never noticed until now. Men really have all the power in relationships, but clown world has perverted us to think we have none. See, I always assumed guy makes first move, yaddi yadda, bullshit bullshit, bla bla bla. So I've been experimenting by becoming more chaste so to speak, and instead focussing on the women as a character and NOT a sexual object. This absolutely drives women mad from what I can tell, because they are so used to being an object of sexuality, they can't comprehend why someone would do the opposite. So now the woman is literally texting me about how i need to kiss her next time i see her, and pretty much begging me to be more intimate. Could be an epic failure, but it's honestly hilarious. @The_Real_Johnny_Ninja was right!

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In all honesty, this is great if you’re just trying to get laid and all..but I’d be much more circumspect in choosing a ltr/lifelong mate.

All we have to go off of is the details you give us, which are likely not a complete picture of this woman (IE she may be a lot better or a lot worse than what we can ascertain from your posts) or the relationship. For example, we have no idea how long you’ve been seeing her?

If you’ve been dating for several months and withholding physicality, yeah I’m not surprised that she’s a little ancy at this point. That in of itself would hardly make her “abnormal” or “whorish.” I’m not even talking about sex in particular, either. If all she’s wanting is kissing and cuddling, that would be totally normal.

All of this shit has to be taken within context.

But in any case, yes “it works.”

I’d say that in fact it works so well that I don’t believe I’ve ever had to make the first physical move on a female in my entire life. Nor have I ever been the first one to say “I love you.”

That in of itself isn’t necessarily a good thing, to be clear. I think it depends on a host of other factors.

My current girlfriend, I’ve been with her almost a year and a half now.

She made it abundantly clear that she was not looking to have sex and wanted to see if we were compatible in other areas. Which was music to my ears because I had just come out of a divorce where the relationship was built on all sorts of weak foundations from the very beginning. Actually, we’re both once divorced and value very similar things at this point in our lives. I just played it cool and made zero moves, which is what she wanted. She eventually signaled when I could go in for the first kiss (which to me, is a move in itself - hence why I say I’ve never made the first move).

If you’re just patient, the woman will always lose her own patience at some point.

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Btw, OP. While this social experimentation is interesting and all, I beg of you to pay attention to what I told you in that other post:

Study up on and become intimately familiar with cluster B disorders and their traits. And then avoid any woman who displays them. You'll save yourself a lot of time and heartache if you do. Same with bi-polar.

One last thing. Trust your gut. You don't necessarily need to be able to know why your gut is saying a particular thing. Just because you can't logically explain it doesn't mean it's not telling you the truth. It sounds like your gut is telling you something already, it's the reason you wrote this post. Had I listened to my gut, I never would have dated - much less married - that fire breathing banshee from hell.