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This last date was a complete disaster for a few reasons. The first is my ongoing battle with negativity, but the second problem is my brain no longer comprehends women. Multiple times this woman got really mad or at least upset at me over mulitple reasons:

  • I told her this would be our last date as a joke. She didn't take it well at all, and was very upset, until i re iterated it was a joke.

  • She told me she doesn't like PDA around friends and family. I decided not to pursue any PDA at all, including the basics like hand holding, etc. I instead got scolded at for being too indecisive.

  • She wanted me to kiss her at the end of the night, and I decided not to. Not because i didn't want to, but based off the above point of no PDA around friends and family.

She's been somewhat distance since then, so i fully expect she's gonna break up with me tomorrow.

This last date was a complete disaster for a few reasons. The first is my ongoing battle with negativity, but the second problem is my brain no longer comprehends women. Multiple times this woman got really mad or at least upset at me over mulitple reasons: * I told her this would be our last date as a joke. She didn't take it well at all, and was very upset, until i re iterated it was a joke. * She told me she doesn't like PDA around friends and family. I decided not to pursue any PDA at all, including the basics like hand holding, etc. I instead got scolded at for being too indecisive. * She wanted me to kiss her at the end of the night, and I decided not to. Not because i didn't want to, but based off the above point of no PDA around friends and family. She's been somewhat distance since then, so i fully expect she's gonna break up with me tomorrow.

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I dont ask for much personally, some minor reciprocity, and clear, open and honest communication. What this means however, is that the communication has to be clear from BOTH sides, none of this im gonna make a call sign and hope he knows what i want because it was something that used to be a thing 20 years ago (I even mentioned i haven't dated for close to a decade, so it should be a given my dating experience is poor to non existant).