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This last date was a complete disaster for a few reasons. The first is my ongoing battle with negativity, but the second problem is my brain no longer comprehends women. Multiple times this woman got really mad or at least upset at me over mulitple reasons:

  • I told her this would be our last date as a joke. She didn't take it well at all, and was very upset, until i re iterated it was a joke.

  • She told me she doesn't like PDA around friends and family. I decided not to pursue any PDA at all, including the basics like hand holding, etc. I instead got scolded at for being too indecisive.

  • She wanted me to kiss her at the end of the night, and I decided not to. Not because i didn't want to, but based off the above point of no PDA around friends and family.

She's been somewhat distance since then, so i fully expect she's gonna break up with me tomorrow.

This last date was a complete disaster for a few reasons. The first is my ongoing battle with negativity, but the second problem is my brain no longer comprehends women. Multiple times this woman got really mad or at least upset at me over mulitple reasons: * I told her this would be our last date as a joke. She didn't take it well at all, and was very upset, until i re iterated it was a joke. * She told me she doesn't like PDA around friends and family. I decided not to pursue any PDA at all, including the basics like hand holding, etc. I instead got scolded at for being too indecisive. * She wanted me to kiss her at the end of the night, and I decided not to. Not because i didn't want to, but based off the above point of no PDA around friends and family. She's been somewhat distance since then, so i fully expect she's gonna break up with me tomorrow.

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She spent her teenage years growing up on a sailboat. It was her idea, when we first got to NZ we had a small boat we used on some weekends and summer vacations. She wanted a bigger boat to go further.

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So she thought something would bring that feeling back and you didn't so it ended. She hinted at something or accidentally spilled what you thought was a key but it ended up as a wall. She also could be like the type that says I like that shirt on you and you were it again so she assumed you were desperate and tried to use you and it didn't work the way she planned. Hell women will use men like a servant without a thought just to make themselves feel better without a care about the man killing himself to do what he feels is the right thing.

I just treat them exactly like they treat me, no expectation of love or anything since it's either right or she's playing me so just do less for them till they EARN it for real not just kind of seem like it.