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This last date was a complete disaster for a few reasons. The first is my ongoing battle with negativity, but the second problem is my brain no longer comprehends women. Multiple times this woman got really mad or at least upset at me over mulitple reasons:

  • I told her this would be our last date as a joke. She didn't take it well at all, and was very upset, until i re iterated it was a joke.

  • She told me she doesn't like PDA around friends and family. I decided not to pursue any PDA at all, including the basics like hand holding, etc. I instead got scolded at for being too indecisive.

  • She wanted me to kiss her at the end of the night, and I decided not to. Not because i didn't want to, but based off the above point of no PDA around friends and family.

She's been somewhat distance since then, so i fully expect she's gonna break up with me tomorrow.

This last date was a complete disaster for a few reasons. The first is my ongoing battle with negativity, but the second problem is my brain no longer comprehends women. Multiple times this woman got really mad or at least upset at me over mulitple reasons: * I told her this would be our last date as a joke. She didn't take it well at all, and was very upset, until i re iterated it was a joke. * She told me she doesn't like PDA around friends and family. I decided not to pursue any PDA at all, including the basics like hand holding, etc. I instead got scolded at for being too indecisive. * She wanted me to kiss her at the end of the night, and I decided not to. Not because i didn't want to, but based off the above point of no PDA around friends and family. She's been somewhat distance since then, so i fully expect she's gonna break up with me tomorrow.

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[–] • 1 pt

What's PDA?

[–] • 2 pts

Public display of affection, so hand holding, light kissing, etc. So for example, hand holding in public could be considered too much PDA by her. When someone tells me no PDA at all, I withhold all intimacy off of that, its one of the most aggressive requests you can ask from me, so not sure why she was surprised.

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I see. I never could stand when people would do that overmuch.

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I consider PDA to be hand holding only, anything beyond that is already verboden in public. Hence, why im surprised she decided against any PDA at all

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

to me it means there is someone that is jealous if she is seen by people getting close with another man. ALso sounds like she's trying to cuck him taking control of everything, as in "You've been good, here boy here's a treat and I will allow you to...." She's making you the bitch, the women should be sub not the man.

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I assumed there was an element of trying to make someone jealous involved. As for the cucking, a lot of it comes down to cross wiring and issues where it gets really hard to figure out what she wants. In this day and age im not gonna commit potential assault because the woman was being confusing