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If they are not a brainwashed thot then they are a brainwashed vaxtard. I'm not gonna reproduce with a GMO. Or towing kids. I've run into a few prospects but we either didn't click or she was homely to a point I can't be attracted to.

Dating in your 30's sucks donkey dick.

I should have held onto one of the winners I had in my 20's. But I was young, dumb, full of cum. And fresh out of ZOG indoctrination camp.

It's all so frustrating. I know plenty of awesome chicks but they are already snatched up. I feel like I'm scraping the bottom of the barrel and am disgusted with what I find. Not really sure what to do.

I have an opportunity to relocate. I'm getting kind of sick of this town anyway. Maybe some new scenery and a restart would be beneficial...

If they are not a brainwashed thot then they are a brainwashed vaxtard. I'm not gonna reproduce with a GMO. Or towing kids. I've run into a few prospects but we either didn't click or she was homely to a point I can't be attracted to. Dating in your 30's sucks donkey dick. I should have held onto one of the winners I had in my 20's. But I was young, dumb, full of cum. And fresh out of ZOG indoctrination camp. It's all so frustrating. I know plenty of awesome chicks but they are already snatched up. I feel like I'm scraping the bottom of the barrel and am disgusted with what I find. Not really sure what to do. I have an opportunity to relocate. I'm getting kind of sick of this town anyway. Maybe some new scenery and a restart would be beneficial...

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[–] • 10 pts

My advice is to widen your geographical area, like to Europe. I think the Slavic women are very nice. They tend to have more traditional values. Hungarian women, while not slavic also share more traditional values.

I agree with your sentiment about the American dating pool.

Good luck!

[–] • 2 pts

I not sure how to go about that. Money wise I'm lower middle class. The whole operation seems cost prohibitive.

[–] • 2 pts

You don't have to physically travel, there are plenty of international dating sites. Sure, at some point you'd want to meet. Consider there are women already in the US who are not American. There is a way.

[–] • 1 pt

Get a new skill and learn a remote job. Programming, website design, pitch deck design, marketing and advertising online.

Lots of businesses will pay you to do this for them if you’re good.

[–] • 0 pt

Find a job where travel is included and expected. I am a software engineer and spent 15 years travelling the world like all over the u.s., europe, asia, etc. Trade shows, customer pre sales support, training...if you want to travel, some jobs list travelling as a prequisite

[–] • 2 pts

Yes I would be interested in any further eastern european solutions...

[–] • 0 pt

They're not white, though.

[–] • 0 pt

Sure, "American" are all white.

[–] • 6 pts

Avoid dating apps and sites. Especially those like tinder. It's better not to be looking for a partner as the good ones usually are met when you least expect it. Live your life without putting pressure on yourself to find a mate. Be in shape, be stable, have a nice clean home even if you're spartiate in your setting, eat healthy, sleep enough, be out there doing stuff. Do all that and you will meet someone you'll love and you'll be loved.

[–] • 5 pts (edited )

I was divorced in my early 30s and for years found dating a nightmare until I figured out the screening process. Just to give you one more tip up ahead:

Let's assume you can find a woman who is attractive, physically & personality, and reasonable in worldview. You then have other factors to consider:

If you date relative close to your age - what baggage does she have?

Does she have kids? An ex-husband? Etc? Not ideal, and def need to know why she's single now.

Does she not? Well, why not? If she doesn't you need to know why not. If she is 30+ and has no major ex there a reason.

Let's say you go younger than you to avoid that. Well, why is she interested in someone older? Gold digger? Some emotional issue?

There are plausible outs for all of these that can be reasonable. I single woman in her 30s may have worked on education and career and then herself not known where to meet a decent person post 20s dating scene. A younger woman interested in a 30 some guy may be because it is you and you take care of yourself and thus look better than 90% of men ten years younger. Etc.

But on top of your basic questions, these are all things you at least need to think about too.

[–] • 4 pts

First. Get out of CA.

2nd. What do you do for fun?

What do want your next girl friend to do for fun? What does she do on weekends?

Is she at a library? Is she playing volleyball? Is she taking night classes?

You have to do those things. Go the library regularly. Join a volleyball league. Go to night school.

If you go to the bar to try and meet a girl, you might meet one but you're going to meet a girl that goes to bars.

Fist visualize what she's doing, then go do that thing.

Girls in their 20s dont mind guys in their 30s. But girls in their 30s rarely like guys in their 20s, so your pool is actually pretty large.

[–] • 1 pt

Wait.. OP is in CA?

That's problems 1-5 right there.

[–] [deleted] • 4 pts

Move to a white rural town.

[–] • 2 pts

Definitely on my radar

[–] • 5 pts

yeah white rural, join a church, join a mens bible study, become friends with the other men, their wives will know someone single, it becomes their mission to set you up. also bonus for fishing and hunting buddies, grilling at events at the park, lead youth groups, redpill everyone

[–] • 1 pt

agree but I went to a church with 0 eligible daughters unfortunately

[–] • 0 pt

The white rural approach may not go well for you considering the best quality chicks will get married to their high school boyfriends or around or directly after their college years. You won’t have access to these chicks most likely, and even if you do, they probably won’t be too interested in you if you are average-looking, lower middle class and hanging around in your 30s. The benefits to dating older guys is that they have a house and some money.

[–] • 1 pt

That's where I met mine.

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt (edited )

Eazy peazy. I'm married but women just come up and talk to me all the time out here just doing whatever. Grocery store, gas station wherever i am when I'm not with the wife. Not bad looking ones either and im not some hulked out guy just not fat. Definitely different than when i lived in the city.

[–] • 1 pt

Rural areas rely on kindness of others for survival.

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[–] [deleted] • 3 pts

Just worry about you and what interests you. Then maybe let a woman be a part of it. You'll be happier in the long run. In the mean time start creating meaningful relationships with both men and woman and build up a strong community of friends.

[–] • 0 pt

Agreed. The relocation I was referencing was a good buddy and his GF inviting me to live in their spare bedroom without prompting. I went to visit and go on a lake excursion with them this weekend. Solid peeps. I'm so sick of everything I might just take them up on the offer.

[–] • 3 pts

We've all seen the broke and useless 300lb women with 4 kids from 4 different fathers saying that they need a real man who's 6', makes 6 figures, who'll treat them like a queen. Who cry and whine saying, "Where are all the good men?" - Don't be the male version of that.

Improve yourself. Then look at your spot in the dating pool. If you don't like where you are and what you see, then improve yourself some more.

Don't be the male equivalent of someone who says things like, "Men don't appreciate women with curves", or "A man needs to treat me like the queen I am", or "Any man I date must be 6', make 6 figures, and have a 6pack".

Meanwhile, if the best that's out there is a 4, then maybe you need to understand that the way women look in the movies and in Instagram posts isn't how women look in real life. And/or, stop thinking that you're a 9 if the best you can get is a 4.

You don't have a time machine. This is the spot you're in, and how things are now. Improve yourself. And then, if you don't like what you can get, then improve yourself some more.

Also, think about your competition. - If things really are as bad as you say they are, then the girl who's a 6 isn't going to settle for you when you're a 7 if there are guys who are 9s and 10s who'd have her because she's the best out of what's left. In order to get the best girl that's left in the dating pool, then you need to be the best guy in order to get her.

Improve yourself. I'm not going to tell you that you're beautiful just the way you are. I'm not going to say the equivalent of "all men are pigs". Instead, I'm telling you to improve yourself.

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[–] • 3 pts

Try it when you're 55 HAHAHAHAHAHA fuck my 'life'.

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[–] • 2 pts

focus on the salvation of the west. its too late in the game to find a quality wife. the best we can do is ensure that not a single white female becomes degenerate again. the kikes did a very good job fucking up our women and children. when at war, there is no time for romance, only pain. make the enemy feel your pain(metaphorically).

[–] [deleted] • 2 pts

Move somewhere with more white people. The less "diversity" the better your options will be.

I realize this isn't an easy thing to find in the USA.

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