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Also,

  • proper hygiene

  • decent haircut

  • clothes that fit well and match

  • a decent life path that you feel confident in

  • hobbies and interests that others may want to know about

  • the ability to take a joke, and laugh off a little ribbing

  • loyalty to family and friends who deserve it

  • passion for life, not afraid to show excitement or happiness

  • the ability to recognize emotions in others as adjust your behavior

I just felt this is needed, because some people who claim to be "redpilled", away over think this and end up being angry misogynist incels who bully every woman they encounter online.

Also, - proper hygiene - decent haircut - clothes that fit well and match - a decent life path that you feel confident in - hobbies and interests that others may want to know about - the ability to take a joke, and laugh off a little ribbing - loyalty to family and friends who deserve it - passion for life, not afraid to show excitement or happiness - the ability to recognize emotions in others as adjust your behavior I just felt this is needed, because some people who claim to be "redpilled", away over think this and end up being angry misogynist incels who bully every woman they encounter online.

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Not necessarily. These traits would put a guy in the top 1%, and would probably scare away 90% of women who think they aren't good enough. From what I've seen, just being comfortable and reliable would probably be enough to get most women. The problem is, most incels are so bitter, insecure, neurotic, and desperate, they couldn't be comfortable if their lives depended on it, and they exude that into every interaction whether they want to or not. Women can sense that shit unconsciously no matter how much the incel tries hiding it, and that runs the women off, just furthering the incel's bullshit. That is if the incel even leaves their house to meet a woman in the first place. From what I've seen, most just sit at home, and expect woman to just show up at their door like magic.

If anything, this list is more for the incel, to get them more comfortable with themselves, while also just getting them out of the house, so they can meet women in the first place.