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Also,

  • proper hygiene

  • decent haircut

  • clothes that fit well and match

  • a decent life path that you feel confident in

  • hobbies and interests that others may want to know about

  • the ability to take a joke, and laugh off a little ribbing

  • loyalty to family and friends who deserve it

  • passion for life, not afraid to show excitement or happiness

  • the ability to recognize emotions in others as adjust your behavior

I just felt this is needed, because some people who claim to be "redpilled", away over think this and end up being angry misogynist incels who bully every woman they encounter online.

Also, - proper hygiene - decent haircut - clothes that fit well and match - a decent life path that you feel confident in - hobbies and interests that others may want to know about - the ability to take a joke, and laugh off a little ribbing - loyalty to family and friends who deserve it - passion for life, not afraid to show excitement or happiness - the ability to recognize emotions in others as adjust your behavior I just felt this is needed, because some people who claim to be "redpilled", away over think this and end up being angry misogynist incels who bully every woman they encounter online.

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Disgustingly enough, I think the proper hygiene bullet is more optional than many would like to believe. I've seen way too many women with guys that completely lack it.

EDIT: Actually, now that I think about it, many of these bullets are far more optional than you give credit for. There's a lot of complete losers out there that have women. Quality women, even. Not just dumptruck women that are just as much of a loser as the guy.

Could be, but someone who has personality and these traits would have an easy time of it.

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Not necessarily. These traits would put a guy in the top 1%, and would probably scare away 90% of women who think they aren't good enough. From what I've seen, just being comfortable and reliable would probably be enough to get most women. The problem is, most incels are so bitter, insecure, neurotic, and desperate, they couldn't be comfortable if their lives depended on it, and they exude that into every interaction whether they want to or not. Women can sense that shit unconsciously no matter how much the incel tries hiding it, and that runs the women off, just furthering the incel's bullshit. That is if the incel even leaves their house to meet a woman in the first place. From what I've seen, most just sit at home, and expect woman to just show up at their door like magic.

If anything, this list is more for the incel, to get them more comfortable with themselves, while also just getting them out of the house, so they can meet women in the first place.

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this is my simple dating guide for incels, hopefully they read it and stop taking out their frustrations (due to lack of intimate contact) onto innocent people simply for being the gender they resent.

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The image you're experiencing is overblown.

Most "incels" are simply LARPing feds that are trying to stoke gender division.
Most men in those situations just seek disassociation and revert to apathy.


Anyway, learn of DHVs and learn how to control frame.
Between those two things and posture and vocal tonality, you don't really need more advice.

I'm simply repeating what has worked for me

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Which is certainly a good idea.
This is, however, just one of the affinities I have, so I feel like I can be pretty helpful here.

Excellent post. No wonder you're such a successful guy.

I'm hoping Kirkland sees it

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He doesn't stand a chance in hell. Women are not attracted to alcholics.

Oh I know, he doesn't hit a single one of these points. It will depress him greatly.

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who bully every woman they encounter online.

How new to the internet are you?

explains it all.

I've been on the internet about 22 years, I know this. But civil discourse is what i prefer.

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I prefer blunt truth over civility.

Again, there's no reason to point out their sex. Just say what you want to say without advertising to the world that you have a vagina.

That aside... do you have any recent examples of this happening? I've looked but I can't really find anything on Poal.

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I did not the read the initial comment..just the title.

Now I have 35 charges of sexual harassment against me.