Really, I'd say you're a loser if your employer gives you a benefit and you don't take advantage of it. Also, the problem isn't paternity leave. It's the fact that his job isn't getting done. He had time (and almost certainly the budget) for a replacement while he was out. His inability to properly delegate is the problem. Just like the new four star fagmiral, his only qualification is being an aids super spreader. Also, how did two faggots get to jump the adoption line. I've know good wholesome families (two guys who have relations are not a family) who have waited years for an adoption. Finally, how are two faggots going to raise a girl? Even if they don't molest the kids (which they probably will), how are they going to deal with raising a girl.