Please, let it go.
I'm asking a serious question.
I took steps to let it go and leave it behind, succesffully.
It was a completely ineffective approach and resulted in escalation across other platforms in an attempt to gaslight.
Basically... these people were given an inch and they went ahead and took a mile. They are impossible to reason with.
"Let it go" didn't work.
Sincerely, I am asking what recommendation you might have that would produce results.
2 choices.
Ignore and pretend they don't exist.
Fight back.
Third option is to give impression of ignoring whilst fighting on the sly but this is fighting back.
Regardless it shan't end way you would like. It never does.
There is a game some people play. It's called I'm going to fuk you before you fuk me. Passive aggressive behaviour uses rules of this game a lot. Those who like to provoke and harass thrive off of this (once they smell blood). Its really the same game. Again, choices are to ignore or to fight back.
Remember with narcissism, there is no winning. Ever. Best option that bothers them most is to ignore.
I have been working in the background. I am ready to write part 2 as soon as I have the time.
I am trying to let it go. I haven't been on for days. I am busy.
The other person in this equation is the one who is not letting it go.
I deleted everything ever said about them and moved on.
Then... more chaos from them and accomplices.
So... I let it go. It didn't work. Now what?
I let it go. It didn't work. Now what?
That's what the other person said. You both see yourselves as letting things go and see the other as keeping things going then feel justified to retaliate.
That just means you are gullible.
"A liar lied, so you have to do what he says."
He didn't let it go, look at his history.
Additionally, I deleted everything, he did not.
He did not let it go.
You both see yourselves as letting things go
Don't be so gullible. If he let it go, he would have stopped talking shit on Poal and stalking me to scheduled appearances and ordering his goons to stalk and harass me and my family on other sites.
I'm sorry, but I don't see your view as valid if the premise is that you trust what a known liar says.
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