I'm asking a serious question.
I took steps to let it go and leave it behind, succesffully.
It was a completely ineffective approach and resulted in escalation across other platforms in an attempt to gaslight.
Basically... these people were given an inch and they went ahead and took a mile. They are impossible to reason with.
"Let it go" didn't work.
Sincerely, I am asking what recommendation you might have that would produce results.
2 choices.
Ignore and pretend they don't exist.
Fight back.
Third option is to give impression of ignoring whilst fighting on the sly but this is fighting back.
Regardless it shan't end way you would like. It never does.
There is a game some people play. It's called I'm going to fuk you before you fuk me. Passive aggressive behaviour uses rules of this game a lot. Those who like to provoke and harass thrive off of this (once they smell blood). Its really the same game. Again, choices are to ignore or to fight back.
Remember with narcissism, there is no winning. Ever. Best option that bothers them most is to ignore.
I have been working in the background. I am ready to write part 2 as soon as I have the time.
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