oh yeah, twas the first thing to drop into my contribution to the conversation. "dont quit, make them fire you" she is so beautifully timid, and more loving than any human ive met. if it were not for my extreme objections she would have followed her mother and friends into the tip of the fucking needle already.
You need to be reassuring that you will make sure shes looked after and that you support her decision if she quits.
Just don't let her get the vaxx man, especially if you want kids.
said these words too "we will not go hungry, we will not lose our home, i will protect and care for you, and our child" thank you friend
Minor note: the human brain doesn't think in negatives. So when we say "we will not lose our home" the brain hears "we will lose our home". It's always best to word things in the positive. "Our pantry will be full, we will be warm in our home, I will protect and care for you and our child" will be more effective.
If you can get her involved (even passively) in any anti-vax online groups, she may find some strength in knowing she isn't alone. Women are desperate to belong to the herd, which is why they're so easy to sway with peer pressure. If she knows she is part of a LARGE herd, that will help.
Depending on where you're located, there are attorneys starting to gather medical professionals for group legal representation. In Ohio there is a large group and the attorney taking on their case has been advising them along the way (essentially, these hospitals WILL blink, they're just hoping to scare everyone.) Also in Ohio, some hospitals are offering $3,200 per week to nurses if they'll get the jab and go work in Cleveland, Columbus, or Cincinnati - the biggest cities. So things are definitely getting dire for hospitals.
Stay strong and continue to be her rock.
Good luck man, I can just quit and go homeless, I have no ties. Men like you will have to be strong you have a lot more on the line.
That might require sacrifice so be prepared for that. May have to downgrade to a smaller home, etc. That's always harder on women than men.
Her atributes will matter not if she's dead.
Do you want a dead wife it's pretty simple.
If your employer is going to cover the cost and damages and pay out then take it or find a new job
Also homes, you might want to just live off one income and leave the woman home or get her starting her own business. I recommend Millionaire Fastlane by MJ DeMarco for that
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