Oh I get it. Logic is sound. I wish I could do so with a clean conscience, but it doesn't sit right and I would regret it long-term.
As said, however, going on trips or spending weekends at each other's places is much more palatable.
Put it this way - looking out for her reputation is a means of loving them, even if we are holding up a standard long discarded. If we want the old ways back we must model them.
Oh I get it. Logic is sound. I wish I could do so with a clean conscience, but it doesn't sit right and I would regret it long-term.
As @OBREZ said, however, going on trips or spending weekends at each other's places is much more palatable.
Put it this way - looking out for her reputation is a means of loving them, even if we are holding up a standard long discarded. If we want the old ways back we must model them.
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