Oh I will stick with it, there isn't any question about that anymore, I'm committed. I'm just not very good. I think I should be better than I am at this point but I know that it'll just take practice, I don't do many things that I don't have a natural ability to do, this is just one of those things I'm not gifted at so it'll just take more practice.
I'm not sure if this is going to help...
I don't expect you to be very good. It's definitely not as easy without direct teaching in a setting where you can ask questions, slow down, and be exposed to other students. You're gonna suck - for quite a while. That has a lot to do with why I often suggest people have fun. It keeps them interested.
Very few people have a natural ability to just pick up a guitar and learn it quickly. Most of us, myself included, put in a fuckton of hours.
Yeah I had a sneaking suspicion that was how it worked for most people, but its okay I'm fine with waiting. Really at the end of the day if I keep at it eventually I'll get where I want to go.
I have a pretty firm belief that most physically-able people can learn to play guitar, with some degree of skill. I even know some physically disabled people who can play guitar. Django Reinhardt only had two fingers and a thumb - on his fretting hand, and he's on my list of guitarists better than Hendrix - and close to the top.
The big difference seems to be the rate at which people will learn. The hoodlum has a distinct advantage, and it shows. When she has a question, she's pretty much attached to my hip - and bursts forth with her question. Where I might give her three or formal lessons per week, she gets 500 mini lessons per week, 'cause she's attached to my hip and full of questions. Her brain is also more plastic, meaning she's able to learn skills like music, at this age, more rapidly than people older will acquire those skills.
I am literally changing the physiology of her brain. There's a couple of bumps on the left side of the brain, it's to the rear, and those who study music at a young age will have a larger amount of brain tissue in that area. If you play, you can watch that fucker light up like a Christmas tree on an fMRI. The earlier you start, the more rapidly you'll acquire information.
This doesn't mean older people can't do it. It means it will take them more effort to reach the same levels.
There's a lot to learn, even for basic proficiency. The rewards are worth it, in my opinion.
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