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I was talking to the woman im trying to date, and I'm kind of noticing a baiting/ego feeding pattern emerging. She claims to be conservative and likes when the guy makes the first move. To me that's fine. But I also noticed she intentionally doesn't text me, with the implication being I can text her first and she can trail the conversation from her side. This isn't a huge deal, but it comes off as irritating after a while, because it's just ego feeding through another form. And there's tons of little red flags here and there, where you wonder what exactly happened. You hear the story, and you know it makes no sense, but you can't really piece together why. So you end up having to sift through multiple conversations until you can figure out what actually happened.

A great example, she complains from time to time one of her last dates was too "physical" and she didn't like that he was so pushy. Except from what I can tell this woman is plenty physical herself. I'm actually taking things slower than she is, and she's the one pushing to be more physical. So this confuses me, because what exactly was the complaint then? Was the guy just too ugly or something, and she didn't like the idea of hooking up with him? And if so, why wait more than a few days or weeks to eventually break up with said person? Why not just pre emptively break up and be done with it?

This eventually feeds into the problem that this woman is actually a terrible communicator from what I can tell. Sure, some could say forcing a stress test on a woman is a very bad idea, due to how destructive they can be. On the other hand, I get most of my information on a woman through these tests, and they give me a much better idea of who they are as a person. Heck, I can get most info on a woman by running a simple background check online, or reverse photo searching, etc.

This makes me think she likes being subservient, but this makes no sense, since by her own words she likes being direct about topics. However it's not uncommon for women to idealize who they want to be and not who they are in reality. Either which way, it's safe to say American women as a group are very broken thanks to globohomo and the rise of all this race mixing, degenerate garbage being pushed

I was talking to the woman im trying to date, and I'm kind of noticing a baiting/ego feeding pattern emerging. She claims to be conservative and likes when the guy makes the first move. To me that's fine. But I also noticed she intentionally doesn't text me, with the implication being I can text her first and she can trail the conversation from her side. This isn't a huge deal, but it comes off as irritating after a while, because it's just ego feeding through another form. And there's tons of little red flags here and there, where you wonder what exactly happened. You hear the story, and you know it makes no sense, but you can't really piece together why. So you end up having to sift through multiple conversations until you can figure out what actually happened. A great example, she complains from time to time one of her last dates was too "physical" and she didn't like that he was so pushy. Except from what I can tell this woman is plenty physical herself. I'm actually taking things slower than she is, and she's the one pushing to be more physical. So this confuses me, because what exactly was the complaint then? Was the guy just too ugly or something, and she didn't like the idea of hooking up with him? And if so, why wait more than a few days or weeks to eventually break up with said person? Why not just pre emptively break up and be done with it? This eventually feeds into the problem that this woman is actually a terrible communicator from what I can tell. Sure, some could say forcing a stress test on a woman is a very bad idea, due to how destructive they can be. On the other hand, I get most of my information on a woman through these tests, and they give me a much better idea of who they are as a person. Heck, I can get most info on a woman by running a simple background check online, or reverse photo searching, etc. This makes me think she likes being subservient, but this makes no sense, since by her own words she likes being direct about topics. However it's not uncommon for women to idealize who they want to be and not who they are in reality. Either which way, it's safe to say American women as a group are very broken thanks to globohomo and the rise of all this race mixing, degenerate garbage being pushed

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[–] • 6 pts (edited )

Because they are lacking male guidance (which is also scarce today).

[–] • 6 pts

There is a reason why fertile teenage females were locked in convents until they could be safely married off. They all think that the entire world revolves around a spindle that comes out of their ass. Once they're saddle broken to getting fucked and making babies, they settle right down.

[–] • 4 pts

That's right. Back in the day there was no 'interim' period where a young female was by herself. She stayed home till she got married. That's why everything is falling apart (and arranged marriages were the norm, though it was agreed that she must like the guy and vice versa).

[–] • 2 pts

Know why Romeo and Juliet both died at the end? Because they both fucking deserved it.

It wasn't a "tragedy". It was a warning. Never go against the family.

https://youtu.be/swJ9OlPhQ34?t=11

[+] [deleted] • 3 pts
[–] • 3 pts

You are thinking about this in a completely wrong way.

You seem to think a woman is an adult human being like a man and is able to communicate to you in a manly manner, with logic and making sense. Nothing could be further from the truth. Women are just simply overgrown children with no real logical thought process.

You simply need to take charge and tell her what to do. Women are naturally subservient and want to be led. She is obviously interested in being led by you if she has given you the time of day, so take the lead. Tell her what you want her to do, and even if she says no, you tell her to do it anyways. You are the master, she is your ward. You should not ever care about her motivations for doing whatever seems insane or try to understand her. There is no point. Simply lead.

Just yesterday I told my woman to get in the kitchen and make me a sandwich, and she say's I'm going to walk through the kitchen and I'm not making a sandwich. I told her who the fuck do you think you are? And she says walking through... So I said to her, fuck you, and she said fuck you back to me. She walked through the kitchen and on into the bedroom continuing on with whatever she was doing. I went outside and got up to doing something myself and just a few minutes later she comes out with a tray with a sandwich and some potato salad and a cold beer. delivered.

Women are naturally subservient, it is their nature

[–] [deleted] • 3 pts

Social media has fucked women on so many levels.

On one it is a constant dopamine rush they have acclimated themselves to. They need CONSTANT affirmation and compliments. This leads to massive egos no matter how awful their lives are (when you get close to them you realize most women have pathetic, substandard lives). This gives them huge egos so they don't work on anything in their lives (see last sentence) and you end up with bloated, dull, overweight, BORING AS FUCK women that think they are brilliant, in shape and lead exciting lives because idiot boy a few states away filled her head with lies.

[–] • 0 pt

The research is actually on your side. This is the exact reason.

Social media has fucked up young women far more than young men (the data shows 5 times more).

[–] [deleted] • 3 pts

I didn't even get to the part where it robs them of any personality or any individuality. They literally become zombies just repeating today's current beliefs as decided by Twitter/Facebook/Instragram. It's scary when you realize that. They all repeat the same politics, watch the same shows and want the same things.

[–] • 1 pt

"We stand with Ukraine."

"Black Lives Matter!"

"Pride Month!"

Yup. Exactly what they are doing.

[–] • 2 pts

I would stay away from that one.

Seems like the type that would always claim she wants the opposite of what you are doing in order to achieve endless victim status.

[–] • 0 pt

She doesn't claim to be a victim directly, or at least not from what I can tell. However, the mixed flags and complete bipolar attitude is super confusing to me. Sometimes she's super chatty and enthusiastic, and other times you would think she just witnessed a double homicide, it's just a personality that can be all over.

[–] [deleted] • 2 pts (edited )

Giving you mixed messages is a way to put you in "damned if you do, damned if you don't" situation.

The most common example I've seen, is a woman complaining that you aren't masculine enough on the one hand, and on the other hand complain that she's afraid of you. Because you are too masculine and that's scary, because men are scary.

A great example, she complains from time to time one of her last dates was too "physical" and she didn't like that he was so pushy. Except from what I can tell this woman is plenty physical herself.

Maybe she's a crazy nymphomaniac. But afraid of being called a slut. So she accuses men to be pushy sluts.

Or sometimes "men only want sex, they can't help themselves", is not a complaint. It's a sort of pick-up line or flirtation. But anticipate to be blamed for everything afterwards.

Or it's a form of bragging. Imagine a guy saying "women always suck my dick. They line up to suck my dick, they are so pushy! It's sooooo difficult to keep women away from my dick, like oh my gosh. Oh, it's soo tiring. Why can't women show some restraint?".

That's obviously shameless bragging. While also blaming the opposite sex.

[–] [deleted] • 2 pts

She expects you to worship her. A boat has only one captain for a reason. She think she is the captain.

[–] • 2 pts

A very common trend amongst the new age women, they just completely shut down when something doesn't go exactly the way they want it. It's actually become a problem lately since they fail a date based off their presumptions of what should have happened. The good news is that most of these women usually braodcast this behavior very early on

[–] • 1 pt

"Women are somewhat between a man and a child."

[–] • 1 pt

If she’s seeing other men while you’re expressing an interest, she’s a certified slut. She should be able to calm her tits for a few minutes while you figure out if she’s worthwhile. She’s playing the averages, and if she’s telling you about other men being “too physical,” she’s playing games.

My guess is she’s a cock carousel rider whose trip is almost over, so she’s looking for somebody who won’t insist on ploughing her all the time, only when she wants it, and who will pony up the cash.

Don’t walk. Run.

[–] • 0 pt

Her texting patterns imply that she's not talking to anyone else, unless women have super fast fingers of some sort. On the other hand, outside asking her, it would be impossible to know this. You could be right about the cock carousel riding part, marriage would be a great way to lock someone in and not have to worry about your way of life or standards being unstable or prone to change, at least at the nuclear family level

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt (edited )

if you have to do this much thinking to enjoy someone's company, i'd say it is over before it has begun. you describe someone who is reading a manual on how to "keep a guy coming back." but she goes off script and then jumps back on.

i don't know. i've been out of the dating and romance game so long, i have no idea what passes as "normal" anymore. but in my time, i just remember a lot of laughing and adventure with whomever i befriended in that department.

[–] • 0 pt

Women are a hard puzzle because there exists the conflicting paradox of desiring to be dominated, hero worship (all natural impulses), what society "rates" her as (usually based on judeo-christian principles) and her own inner Heroine that she would like to embody. Men also are repressed, encouraged not to Fight or show outward masculinity thus causing a castrated (circumsized?) Beta-Machismo complex. My answer: JUST FUCK. lol. Hero Worship is great try to recognize Virtue in each other, if you can't see that in her or yourself, then, by the norse gods, RUN in the other direction.

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

Find another one, over half the world is female.

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