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This last date was a complete disaster for a few reasons. The first is my ongoing battle with negativity, but the second problem is my brain no longer comprehends women. Multiple times this woman got really mad or at least upset at me over mulitple reasons:

  • I told her this would be our last date as a joke. She didn't take it well at all, and was very upset, until i re iterated it was a joke.

  • She told me she doesn't like PDA around friends and family. I decided not to pursue any PDA at all, including the basics like hand holding, etc. I instead got scolded at for being too indecisive.

  • She wanted me to kiss her at the end of the night, and I decided not to. Not because i didn't want to, but based off the above point of no PDA around friends and family.

She's been somewhat distance since then, so i fully expect she's gonna break up with me tomorrow.

This last date was a complete disaster for a few reasons. The first is my ongoing battle with negativity, but the second problem is my brain no longer comprehends women. Multiple times this woman got really mad or at least upset at me over mulitple reasons: * I told her this would be our last date as a joke. She didn't take it well at all, and was very upset, until i re iterated it was a joke. * She told me she doesn't like PDA around friends and family. I decided not to pursue any PDA at all, including the basics like hand holding, etc. I instead got scolded at for being too indecisive. * She wanted me to kiss her at the end of the night, and I decided not to. Not because i didn't want to, but based off the above point of no PDA around friends and family. She's been somewhat distance since then, so i fully expect she's gonna break up with me tomorrow.

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[–] • 1 pt

Being alone can suck at times, but I think it's better than being stuck with someone that makes you miserable. I'm on my second marriage, 25 years so far, and it's been great. The first marriage was (I thought) great for the first 6-7 years, then it was like everything I did was wrong. I used to dread going home after work, wondering what she was going bitch about and blame me for. I was relieved when she announced she was leaving. Thankfully we didn't have kids.

[–] • 2 pts

What happened to her?

[–] • 2 pts

She went to visit her sister for a week. Called me 2 weeks later and told me she wasn't coming back, she was staying there with her new boyfriend. She called me 6 months later all weepy and asked if I was 'happy', I just laughed and hung up. We had married young and when she left she told me I was boring.

[–] • 2 pts

Dang. Sometimes life sucks.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ncnQ48A3b4E

[–] • 1 pt

You were too nice, she wanted you to argue and talk back. Passionate displays enforcing your world view, so she could use her woman powers of offering you some warm holes, and change your mind.