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This last date was a complete disaster for a few reasons. The first is my ongoing battle with negativity, but the second problem is my brain no longer comprehends women. Multiple times this woman got really mad or at least upset at me over mulitple reasons:

  • I told her this would be our last date as a joke. She didn't take it well at all, and was very upset, until i re iterated it was a joke.

  • She told me she doesn't like PDA around friends and family. I decided not to pursue any PDA at all, including the basics like hand holding, etc. I instead got scolded at for being too indecisive.

  • She wanted me to kiss her at the end of the night, and I decided not to. Not because i didn't want to, but based off the above point of no PDA around friends and family.

She's been somewhat distance since then, so i fully expect she's gonna break up with me tomorrow.

This last date was a complete disaster for a few reasons. The first is my ongoing battle with negativity, but the second problem is my brain no longer comprehends women. Multiple times this woman got really mad or at least upset at me over mulitple reasons: * I told her this would be our last date as a joke. She didn't take it well at all, and was very upset, until i re iterated it was a joke. * She told me she doesn't like PDA around friends and family. I decided not to pursue any PDA at all, including the basics like hand holding, etc. I instead got scolded at for being too indecisive. * She wanted me to kiss her at the end of the night, and I decided not to. Not because i didn't want to, but based off the above point of no PDA around friends and family. She's been somewhat distance since then, so i fully expect she's gonna break up with me tomorrow.

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[–] • 3 pts

Sounds like she is the one that is indecisive, wants no PDA but wants a kiss. Or she is trying to see how controlling you will allow her to be.

[–] • 2 pts

Generally im of the rule if someone says no, its a no. They cant rectify the rule later and say it was "wrong". So I stood to my guns as was instructed by this person. I just dont know why someone would say NO and imply YES, and then complain a guy would be incapable of understanding the massive cross wiring issue going on by claiming two polar opposite differences

[–] • 1 pt

Because what she wants changes moment to moment, based on how she feels.

[–] • 1 pt

Being alone can suck at times, but I think it's better than being stuck with someone that makes you miserable. I'm on my second marriage, 25 years so far, and it's been great. The first marriage was (I thought) great for the first 6-7 years, then it was like everything I did was wrong. I used to dread going home after work, wondering what she was going bitch about and blame me for. I was relieved when she announced she was leaving. Thankfully we didn't have kids.

[–] • 2 pts

What happened to her?