baby rabies
You win the award for today.
That's an old one. If that wins an award then we really need to step our game up.
It just wins it for today.
baby rabies
You win the award for today.
That's an old one. If that wins an award then we really need to step our game up.
It just wins it for today.
corporate America wanted to double the workforce, and Washington wanted more people paying into social security.
kikes
Tbh at this point, I'd say do not marry UNTIL you have kids. The point of marriage is kids. That whole huge thing your parents pay the equivalent of their house for? It's to secure you stay together for kids.
Too many people getting married for love or obligation. You are SERIOUSLY wasting your time and fucking your own selves up. You'll end up staying with someone past their prime, be a post married person and THEN trying to get married for kids after you've already f'ed yourself up mentally etc?
And for those who think having kids past 30 "is a great idea". Think of your kids. When they're 50, you'll be 80 and probably dead. Sound selfish? There is a good chance you'll be dead by the time they're 40. They're going to lose their parents young.
And if they have their kids at 30 too? You'll barely be around to be grandparents to their kids. Their kids will have grandparents until they're like 10 to 20.
Until you're ready* to have kids. My wife and I were together over 5 years before I proposed. We were at that point where we were ready to have kids so we got married.
We were in our late 20's and realized how important to have kids younger so we're just popping them out right after one another. It's tough enough at this age, I couldn't imagine waiting another 5-10 years.
Can you really be "ready" to have kids? It's a new life filled with risks and rewards, it's not something you can be prepared for.
This is a point I've been stressing to my wife. She keeps trying to move the goalpost of when we will have our first kid. She's 28 and I told her that if she's not pregnant by 30, she is going to have a really great 30th birthday party followed by a divorce.
I read a book that basically said not having kids is the #1 reason for divorce. It also said in the book 1 kid is still basically a 40% chance, 2 kids like 30%. It's not until 3 kids that it goes down to a good number like 12%. And keeps going lower with each extra kid.
I genuinely believe if you don't have kids within 2 years of marriage nature will start to begin to naturally break up the marriage. The earlier the better for happiness I have no doubt.
We have been married for two and a half years now. Been together for 8. We have been renovating a house together with our families and we are almost done. That was her one condition for having children and she's trying to say we need to save more now. Nah it ain't happening.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4211719/
We suggest that PMS had a selective advantage because it increased the chance that infertile pair bonds would dissolve, thus improving the reproductive outcomes of women in such partnerships.
Nature does it with PMS
Continue shunning marriage until they are forced to change family law.
What a fucking world
My stories are not the most extreme, despite the things i saw.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tOpe77-ZtJw
That's just fort hood.
There are always consequences to cucking to authoritarianism. Demographic collapse is only one of them.
What rewards are we talking about, and who do they benefit?
Those are good questions.
This is where things get weird, because in a way human reproductive strategy is market speculation. Everyone gets different returns. Now in the old day the genetic and social market was healthier. Today it has a lot of risks.
I am not going to give the hard sell for marriage, nor should anyone do that, because it varies from person to person. At the same time it's not something people should be quick to write off.
It's not a good answer, it's a vague answer, because the people that determine the rewards and the benefits are the people directly involved. At the same time, if you vet your partners you should have a better time the people who give the first cow that gives them a blow job a ring.
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