Welcome • User Guide
ToS • Privacy • Canary
Donate • Bugs • License

©2025 Poal.co

1.0K

People give me money and that's cool because holy shit is life expensive. Every guy I know (I only meet people at work) has tried to get in my pants. Gross. The stuff I learned on voat about single moms being good for nothing except a quick lay is a real attitude that some men have. I don't want sex, I want a hug. It's very difficult to not get those daily hugs from a grown man anymore. My children didn't just lose their father, they also lost their mother. I am a completely different person and I'm still changing. I have to be tough and that is not feminine. But I'm still alive and haven't quit doing what I have to do even though I want to burn everything down and fuck off to the woods and cry forever.

Thanks to everyone who replied, even the ones who weren't nice. I do have one female friend that helps me a lot. And I will take your advice and call myself a widow instead of a single mother even though the word makes me sad.

People give me money and that's cool because holy shit is life expensive. Every guy I know (I only meet people at work) has tried to get in my pants. Gross. The stuff I learned on voat about single moms being good for nothing except a quick lay is a real attitude that some men have. I don't want sex, I want a hug. It's very difficult to not get those daily hugs from a grown man anymore. My children didn't just lose their father, they also lost their mother. I am a completely different person and I'm still changing. I have to be tough and that is not feminine. But I'm still alive and haven't quit doing what I have to do even though I want to burn everything down and fuck off to the woods and cry forever. Thanks to everyone who replied, even the ones who weren't nice. I do have one female friend that helps me a lot. And I will take your advice and call myself a widow instead of a single mother even though the word makes me sad.

(post is archived)

You are currently inside a comment thread.
Click here to see all the comments (93).
[–] • 4 pts (edited )

You were a wife and mother before, being a wife is the only one of those that changed. So chosing to identify as a single mom can look like your 1st priority is to be seen as a victim, it makes it about you. When 99x out of 100 we know ppl assume it must imply some deadbeat dad somewhere. Identifying as a widow acknowledges/honours your husband in a more selfless way imo. Which brings honour to you and your kids.

As far as Voat goes, can’t say I seen anyone bragging about wanting to shag single moms other then the “show me your tits” degenerates that wouldn’t survive a month in a Strong Man, honour culture, but knowing you survived in a place that rough is a good sign or your mental strength imo.